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thezenmind:

Pain can take a grip of us when we least expect it to, ripping through our consciousness or our physicality, take time to release all feelings surrounding the pain, and allow the pain to be felt, it is natural; in the pain notice the silence, that silence knows neither sorrow, nor suffering, it is there for you to remember that pain is not eternal and that in the silence you can find peace. 

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13reasonswhyiloveyou:

yeah.. absolutely .. 

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the other day I asked my sister “bakit di mo daw sinagot si____ sabi nila mabait daw yun ahh at di manloloko”

she answered me “ate halata naman na babaero eh ayaw ko sa ganun”

“ah akala ko ba sabi nila hindi daw eh pano mo na nasabi”

“sa mga status niya at picture sa fb tsaka wala ako oras sa ganyan eh hirap na nga ng architecture may ganyan pa! saka na! fling fling pwede pa pero yung ganyan relationship? pag graduate ko na or pag may trabaho na ako”

bilib din ako sa kapatid ko iwas tukso lagi she’s super focused sa pagtatapos ng BS Architecture and as for me! I think I need the same determination and focus ng makatapos narin ako ng Arki :) Been through hell sa mga former relationship ko and PAIN and study wont match! we have to admit na imbis mag aral tayo iiyak nalang tayo sa kwarto natin nagsisisi 

Yes Ive been through those situation days na ayaw pumasok sa klase(college) kasi di mo siya kasama or andun siya. and NOW naisip ko why put myself down ng dahil sa ganun? HE’S NOT A LOSS marami diyan iba and if ever he comes back STOP! it wont be a healthy relationship anymore! he/you broke up for a reason! in the end you’ll cry over the same things again and again and again(WELL YOU GET MY POINT) as of now i think its day 20-ish since we broke up and I kept myself busy and also had a makeover:) I REALIZED THAT ITS ABOUT TIME I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF kasi pag nasa isang relationship  ako nakakalimutan ko sarili ko I usually am fond of taking care of my bf instead of myself todo alaga ako pag pinagpapawisan pinupunasan ko pa so on:)) para na nga ako nanay eh:D

LOOK AT IT THIS WAY A BREAK UP MIGHT BE A NIGHTMARE but if you look at it closely its a SWEET/GOOD DREAM♥

why?:) cause it opened your eyes to new possibilities in life, helped you reconnect to your TRUE loved ones the one who wont leave you for the rest of your life (as for me) and you managed to make time for yourself.

——anyway everything has its time:) LOVE can wait for now:D♥ciao:D

margoism:

it dawned on me, after reading the quote from hannah arendt, why i had been an unforgiving person. i would justify my “personality” with “why would i forgive when i have been very patient, giving, and understanding?” 

hurt is an emotion universal to all of us and dealing with it is what makes us unique. depending on the circumstances, i’d “kill” myself with work, “bury” myself reading, and often times, “end” up contemplating by myself in a coffeeshop - quite a drag really, considering that the pang emanates within you, no matter how emotionally strong you are. the upside of having a high eq is knowing that these things will fade with time and there will always be a reason to smile everyday. having a low eq, on the other hand, brings unreasonable depression. 

life is not easy nor fair, that’s just that. 

truthfully, i don’t really hold on to anger…i hold on to how things ended up pretty unfairly for me. so yes, i can say for myself that i am unable to forgive because i felt helpless at the thought that i am unable to punish. timelessly, people have the tendency of using “makakarama din un” or “may araw din siya” as a consolation to one’s grief or woe towards another but that, in itself, is unfair because how can you claim another person’s misfortune as justice done to you?

when you’re older, it’s sad to loose people close to you. however, in all relationships, when things are not working out and one bad turn led to the worse case scenario, letting go and dealing with the pain is a reality one has to face.

in my experience, when it happens, it happens. 

i may not be okay but i’ll be fine just because i know i had saved myself from something that might leave me devastated. while it’s a weak mantra in times of melancholia, the pain goes away after remembering the better times. it doesn’t mean i have forgiven, it only means that i have resolved the aching tinge within me and move on. 

sometimes, there is nothing to really forgive.

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